A buddy of mine asked me once, would you rather know when your woman is faking it, or would you rather not know and enjoy the sex as it is? It sounded too philosophical and I was about to do some serious soul searching to answer such a silly question. But really, do we really want to know when we’re being duped?
You’ve bragged to your buds about how you can make her cum at least 8 times during a sex session, but what you may not know is that she could be complaining about how you didn’t really hit the spot to her other girlfriends.
What I am about to share can bruise the ego of many men. Read at your own risk.
She’s making out with you
Women loooooove kissing! We really dig sweet make-out sessions with soft lips, and this is a great sexual building block. BUT! Once the mood’s been set and we’re heading toward Climax, USA, we’re not going to be able to simultaneously conduct a deep-kiss stance while we’re also getting our bodies in the perfect position to orgasm in. If you’re on the right track, she’s liable to ignore your kisses entirely or turn her head from you.
Her chest isn’t red and splotchy.
When some men and women get aroused, they have what we call a “flush,” or a glow, where the skin reddens or turns a pinkish color. It’s caused by increased blood flow to the surface of the skin. When a woman gets flush, pinkish spots appear on her stomach and can spread to the breasts, torso, face, hands, feet, and sometimes down to her lady parts. It can sometimes look a bit like a rash, which doesn’t sound all that attractive, but those red marks signal to you that she’s reached her peak and she’s not a faker. It’s important to remember that not at all women experience this flush. Roughly 60-70% of women will experience it, while it only occurs in about 25% of men.
Her breathing gets from heavy to normal in a snap
When you have sex, you notice that she breathes way too heavily, and she moans like crazy. At times, it may seem like she’s putting on a show, and after she climaxes, you notice that her breathing goes back to normal, just like she got out of bed. What’s up with that? It’s just a part of their ruse to convince you that they came so you can just finish off and get it over with.
She’s Too Loud Too Early.
Some ladies can take up to 50 minutes to climax, some lucky ladies take 5, but it’s rare for a gal to be that satisfied that early when there’s solely penetration involved. Don’t get me wrong, loud sex is what we aim for, and it’s not about during, it’s about the finish. Men often finish first and it can become really awkward for girls when they haven’t finished yet, so they’ll whine like porn stars with bad acting skills and just frustratedly move on. Finish her off guys, it’s just common courtesy.
She’s not speaking in tongues
Sure, coherent dirty talk during the deed can be a clear sign that you’re on the right path. But when a woman orgasms, she’s incapable of reciting Wordsworth. If she’s really getting into it, her phrases are going to break apart in — to — lit — piece…
If all you’re getting is “Come for me,” or “You feel really good,” or all her noises are synced up perfectly to each of your hip thrusts, you have a right to be suspicious. Yeah, it may seem like a porn set — but remember, those ladies are acting, too.
Her skin is dry
Orgasms cause faster heart rates, higher blood pressure, and quickened pulses. So even if you’re doing it in a snowbank, she is going to be sweating. The perspiration might not be everywhere (damn snow bank!) — but it will be in the creases of her elbows and knees, between her breasts, and at the small of her back.
Watch her pupils.
A good way to tell if you’re being played is to watch her eyes. If she’s aroused and building up to blast-off then her pupils will dilate, becoming bigger than normal. Before you dive into lovemaking, make sure you take a look at the size of her pupils. This will give you a point of reference when judging the size. If her pupils don’t dilate, she may be faking.
She jumps off the bed right after sex
After a woman finishes, it takes a while to recuperate and regain her composure before she can start to do anything. That’s why they cuddle, they rest, and sometimes they even sleep after sex. If she can just jump right off the bed and go back to what she was doing before you were having sex, she faked it for sure. A woman’s only reason to jump off the bed after having an orgasm is to relieve themselves in the bathroom.
She’s doing her Kegels
Ooooh, this is a clever one! When a woman orgasms, her vaginal muscles to expand and contract, like a fist clenching and unclenching. So a smart lady is going to fake her orgasms by doing kegel exercises — and a smart partner is going to feel for that activity to ensure the mission is being accomplished.
She can’t look you in the eye
After sex, it’s the guilty look that she’s sporting. She avoids you, you can’t talk to her openly, and she can’t look you in the eye – the classic telltale signs of lying. Faking an orgasm is lying about your sexual satisfaction.
Given all these signs, how can you tell that she’s not faking it? Women have different ways of enjoying sex, and they are stimulated in a number of ways, but the most common sign that your partner is not faking it is when you feel her PC muscles (pubococcygeus) close in on your penis when you have sex. Also, toe-curling is a dead giveaway for pleasure.
You both climax at the same time.
Circumstance depending, it’s common knowledge that women take more time to reach the grand finale at the firework show (if you catch our drift). Reaching that peak at the same time often considered one of the most romantic things that could happen during intercourse. However, the likely-hood of that actually happening is very, very rare. Studies show that men tend to climax first during intercourse, whilst women can take up to 15 minutes or longer to reach that same level. So, if you and your girl seem to climax at exactly the same time frequently, it’s a strong sign that she’s faking it.
Why is she faking it?
For a number of reasons – maybe she’s bored, or she’s just too polite to tell you-you’re boring. A lacking sexual performance usually leaves women bored in bed. If you find her faking her orgasms, consider taking the best male enhancement supplements like Instant Erection and Sexual Overdrive to make her experience what it’s like when you’re running at full-speed.